a grandfather’s passing discussed by a father and son

What is eternity? How can sorrow and loss become an occasion for spiritual growth, a thankful awareness of enduring gifts and even an enhanced sense of connectedness between the generations? How does one both respect and soothe the grief of a child at the death of a grandfather and turn it into strength? One finds a way, as a son, for the need of strength oneself, and for the love of one’s own father and son.

Powerful moments, moments like the passing of a father etch the simplest words like light, like fire into the shadows of memory, the warm, rich ever-present shadows that feed what we are. Without memory, without bringing the soul’s candle-light to pain we are not human. The simplest phrase, like, “I have to tell you sad news” acquires a radiant gravity that makes time stand still, opening a window to eternity. The connection must be made. (more…)